He only refers to you as his "girlfriend" in private, and even then only sporadically.
He makes you feel like crap when you wonder what is going on with your "relationship".
He tries to get you to have group sex (with his ex!).
He's an actor.
He drinks a lot at cast parties.
He brags about having attended "naked parties" in college.
He still wishes he were back in college.
He moves to another state. (remember the golden rule of cheating - "out of sight, out of mind")
He suddenly doesn't return your phone calls, telling you he is "really busy" and has bad cell service.
You can't even get a hold of the guy and it's 9/11 and you work in Manhattan so clearly he doesn't care what happens to you in the wake of national tragedy.
You confess you hooked up with someone else and he is dead silent.
The only truly good part of the relationship is, was, and always will be just the sex.
